The 4B movement is rather silly. Keep in mind, with respect to abortion, men are more liberal than your fellow women.

Start with this Harvard Harris poll...

The results to the question:

"Do you think your state should allow abortion…?" were

Up to 9 months [10%]

Up to 23 weeks [18%]

Up to 15 weeks [23%]

Up to six weeks [12%]

Only in cases of rape and incest [37%]

At the gender level...

women respondents preferred the three most restrictive options by 75%-25%, while men preferred them only by 69%-31%.

But it seems you have been victimized into thinking this is a gender issue and not an ideological one.

People who believe in "human rights" cannot ignore the rights of any group of humans, be they minorities, women, LGBTQ+, or unborn humans. The problem is how do you resolve differences when both parties have human rights that are threatened and yet irreconcilable.

People who believe in the ideology of "what I want" attempt to enforce their views on various issues on others regardless of the presence of human rights on both sides of an issue. That is very selfish. Like the soldier, who does not want to risk his body to defend his nation when it is threatened.

Anyway, good luck with your Sex and Labor Strike, but as the statistics show more women disagree with you than agree with you, the average guy will find someone to share his life with, who does not think "sex" is a weapon, but rather something shared between two people with a deep love for one another.

If you find yourself in a relationship that you can't commit to, then sadly, it is time for both of you to move on.