I respond to you as I would any human. In our family, that is a requirement. My grandchildren are mostly black (5 out of 7), my children white and Asian. So, are you suggesting I should not provide them any parenting or grandparenting advice because they are a different skin color. Seems foolish, good sense is not dependent on skin color. Furthermore, a lifetime's experience and a successful career as someone who hired and developed management and executive talent including people of all races, genders, sexual preferences, and religions provides insights that young people don't have.

You seem committed to segregate yourself and that is clearly your right and choice. I would recommend you find some successful African Americans and use them as role models. Good luck.