At some level your points are good ones... I am sure that you have a whole list of flaws also. So as you work your way through life remember you have a ton of issues that others deal with everyday and you can afford to look past their issues.

Of all the issues you raise, the one regarding an expectation of sex is the one I agree most with on. No woman or man should have an expectation of sex. It should be something both sides choose to share or it simply should not happen.

Back when I was dating, I was likewise pressured to "come in", when I wanted to "go home" after a date. Why couldn't women simply enjoy the date without thinking you are rejecting them when you don't want to sleep with them.

Virtually, every criticism you make of men can equally apply to women. They are all largely "learned" behaviors. Again back in my dating days, I found women who craved constant feedback problematic... on the other hand, never saying anything leaves a woman not knowing what pleases you. Finding that middle ground is not always easy especially with women that take offense rather than provide helpful feedback.

Relationships start with having things in common, but few couples are perfect fits. On the issues that "offend" you, you have two choices... if the person is someone you really like provide feedback and if they like you they will try to modify that behavior. If you find that behavior to intolerable to continue with... move on... chance are the other person feels the same way and just hasn't the courage to move on...